Dear Mind over Miles, My S/O has been not talking to me in the way that he use to. We use to talk all the time and lately it seems like he just doesn’t want to talk. He use to call me cute nicknames and now he doesn’t. Everything he replies is one…
Category: Advice
Mind Over Miles: How Can We Overcome This Time Difference?
Dear Mind Over Miles, My question concerns firstly the time difference. I’m Swiss, my boyfriend is Australian. That means we’re 8 hours (in winter 10 hours, which is actually easier) apart. It’s really difficult to phone as I go to bed when he gets up and basically vice versa. I don’t know how…
Mind Over Miles: Is There Any Hope For Us?
Dear Mind Over Miles, I have been in a LDR for nearly 6 years and both of us are on a low income because we are students. Our romance started on blackberry messenger though a mutual friend of ours that wanted us to date because she was dating his friend. He is from…
Mind Over Miles: How Can I Get Her Back?
Dear Mind Over Miles, I was very happy in my LDR with the girl of my dreams. We were together for 5 months and we met in person a few times and it was great. I love her but she recently broke up with me. She she said that things have changed and…
Mind Over Miles: Can’t Get My Mind Off Of Him
Dear Mind Over Miles, My boyfriend and I are both in college. We have been dating for almost 2 years and we survived our first year of long distance. We just had a visit recently but we’re having some issues in our relationship. Nothing too serious, but we’re going through a rough patch….
Mind Over Miles: Struggling Being Away From My Girlfriend
Dear Mind Over Miles, I struggle a lot here recently with being away from my girlfriend. She is truly the love of my life and our love and friendship are priceless. It seems the more I’m with her the more I want to be with her. I’m in Chicago and she is in…
Mind Over Miles: Help! Visiting Him Will Make Me Miss Him More
Dear Mind Over Miles, Help! I’m supposed to visit my boyfriend in a few weeks, but I’m worried because it’s just for a couple of days. There are 1,000 miles between us. My concern is that seeing him for such a short while will make me miss him more. I know we’re going…
Mind Over Miles: He’s Afraid Of Committing To a LDR, Should We Break Up?
Dear Mind Over Miles, P and I have been together for over a year. We broke up in summer 2014 as he was leaving for 2 semester abroad and ldr seemed unreasonable to him. He hooked up with 2 women over a span of 5 months but has come clean to me. It…
Mind Over Miles: How Can I Spice Up Our Relationship?
Dear Mind Over Miles, I have my first long distance relationship. My boyfriend needed to fly back to Guam. Because he works there. And I’m in the Philippines. We were so happy and sweet when we were together. And it felt like we could face all the problems in life as long as…
Mind Over Miles: She’s Sad But She Won’t Talk To Me. How Can I Help Her?
Dear Mind Over Miles, Recently my SO has been dealing with her mother leaving for another country to live. She was really sad about it as she was close to her mother, she also had her university studies, new job and taking care of the house on her plate now and was pretty…