Category: Advice

Mind Over Miles: Part Of Him Wants Us Together & Part Of Him Is Tired Of Fighting For Us

Dear Mind Over Miles, We’ve been in an LDR for 1 year and 2 months and have visited each other & met each others families. But now he’s starting to talk about how he is feeling too insecure about us. He said it’s not because of me, but he has things on his…

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Mind Over Miles: He Said That Bob Wasn’t His Real Name

Hey, I’ve been in an LDR for 3 years now. I recently remembered when my bf and I started talking he said that “Bob” wasn’t his real name and that when we’ll meet then he’ll say it to me. We haven’t met yet and I already asked him if “Bob”was his real name…

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Mind Over Miles: My Mother Will Not Help Financially When It Comes To Meeting My Boyfriend

Dear Mind Over Miles, My mother is very strict and will not help financially when it comes to meeting my boyfriend. We’re both adults but financially dependent. How do I persuade her that this is for the best? -Taryn Hair Dear Taryn, I’m sorry to hear that your mother will not assist you…

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Mind Over Miles: He Currently Has A Girlfriend & Still Says He Loves Me

Dear Mind Over Miles, I met him when I was 15 years old. Now we are both 20. We both love each other but he’s had 2 girlfriends after me and currently still has a gf and still says he loves me. When he knows I’m in town he does the impossible to…

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Mind Over Miles: When He Leaves It’s Like Someone’s Punched Me

Dear Mind Over Miles, My man is in the army bases over seas. We’ve been together over a year and we connect brilliantly both over communication and in person. But that first week when he leaves is like someone’s punched me in the gut. Everything reminds me of him in our flat and…

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Mind Over Miles: I’ve lost Interest In My Long Distance Relationship, Help!

Dear Mind Over Miles, I’ve been with my long distance bf for 10 months. My mom, brothers and my few friends (they are very close friends) know about him, but on his side his family has no idea I exist. He says a couple of his friends know but I highly doubt it….

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Mind Over Miles: Why Does She Avoid Physical Affection When I Visit Her?

Dear Mind Over Miles, We’ve been in an LDR for 6 months until now. She meets me every two months. When I ask for a kiss, hug or for personal time when we’re together she makes a reason to avoid it. What should I do? Is this a preferable relationship? Because after every…

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Mind Over Miles: Does Love Really Transcend Miles & Distance?

Dear Mind Over Miles, I’ve been in an LDR on and off for about 4 years now. The first go round was hard on me and I chose to be with someone else for a while. But I always missed him, even if everyone around me was telling me an LDR wasn’t good…

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Mind Over Miles: How To Ease The Pain of Distance

Dear Mind Over Miles, I’m stationed in Germany, I’m in the US army. Me and my significant other are going through a horrible time with this distance (she lives in pennsylvania) I just need advice on how to ease the pain of the distance as its affecting us both very negatively. – Wombat…

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